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The Joint is Jumping in January!
I have made up my mind that 2011 is going to be different. For some reason, 2010 lacked joy and passion for me. It felt a lot like I was swimming upstream, trying to eke out a living to just pay debts and keep my head above water.
I watched as gas prices rose and my God is it me or are groceries expensive. Why is it you can buy a few odds and sods at the grocery store and you've just spent $50.00 on next to nothing. Money seems to come in and float right out.
It seems like everything is going up...and as a result I really did feel like I was treading water financially. Work was stable, but at times frustrating and not as rewarding as I would have liked to have seen. Again, it felt like the joy was sucked out of my work, akin to someone poking a pin through a helium filled balloon...and watching it float up in the air and away!
Friendships although good, sometimes left you feeling flat in 2010...it seems we live busy lives...and don't have as much time for socializing...
Is it me or was 2010 like treading water, waters that were choppy at times and kind of luke warm at other times.
So this year as I reflect on the year that was, I focus on the wins and I look back at lessons learned...
Now don't get me wrong I am not blaming anyone for the year that was, but didn't you feel kind of helpless when the BP oil well crisis hit? Or when the G20 fiasco took place in Toronto? Or how we somehow seem to be overtaxed (cue HST) and underpaid...is it me? Does the Ontario government meddle a little too much and what does the Harper government actually do? Is it me or are you feeling it too?
Now that being said, you gotta play through the pain and realities of life...but this year I am declaring that 2011 is the year of "Passion, joy and fun".
If I am not having fun, or living passionately and fully or in-joy, then someone please call me on to the carpet on this.
I am tired of being tired of the mundane nature that life sometimes can become.
I am being truthful here in this the first newsletter posting of 2011. I am not pulling punches and yes I realize some of what I am writing is my own shit. I own it. But I have had enough! I want my 2011 to be new, fun , joyous and juicy.
So here is what you can do if you want that for yourself...let's look at making things fun.
Can you turn the bland into funtastic? You bet. Add the element of play into the mix. When you were kids, you could play at something so boring for hours, because you played time flew and it was way more enjoyable!
Think of the big picture in life, and think of what you want your life purpose or yearly purpose to be about and ask yourself in each moment, "are you in purpose"?
As mentioned, I am purposefully living a life of fun, passion and joy this year, I am declaring it so! If I am not being that, you can tap me on the shoulder and ask me, "Hey Cohen, what gives"?
So what is your purpose this year? Are you living it moment to moment? If not get back to purpose and fast, then watch the shift!
Are you living in the moment? Or are you in the past or some kind of future? This year be in the moment, in truth, it's all there is. Keep the focus, stay centered and really connect with someone in the moment and watch how much juicier your relationships can be!
Choose joy in all you do. Find the joy in what you do and if what you're doing isn't bringing you joy, then step back and step away, try a different job, or route or switch gears. Really, you do the world and yourself a favour by being in joy! Injoy yourself in 2011...and really enjoy everything you do. If negative situations are bringing you down, cut it loose, it's not healthy and it's not serving you or the world in anyway.
Humans can be addicted to the suffering, but why? I remember my good friend Shawn Shepheard talking about little Matty Stepanek, a young man of 13 who had Muscular Dystrophy, when interviewed on Larry King Live a few years ago, a caller called into the show and asked Matty, why he was so happy and why he wasn't more upset about knowing that his death was imminent?
Matty replied, without skipping a beat..."Because I don't have time to be miserable"!
Choose, to be in-joy.
Limit the negative aspects in your life or get a handle on getting them taken care of.
For example, there is a wonderful native aboriginal fable about a Grandfather and his Grandson watching two wolves fighting, a good wolf and a bad wolf, the grandson asks his Grandfather, which wolf will win?
The Grandfather replies, which ever you feed!
Which essentially means what wolf are you feeding? Are you focused on the negative people, situations and things? If so what's the cost? What's the pay off? Why are you choosing the negative?
What's in it for you if you choose to feed the positive behaviours and actions?
I will tell you that it is scary feeding the positive, because that can mean work or taking actions that might be seemingly uncomfortable at first. But once you take that first step towards a positive action or actions, you watch how that feels...it's a fantastic feeling and it's empowering you to live your best life.
The Grandfather we spoke about makes sense huh? Watch what wolf you're feeding in 2011.
As you create the kind of year you want know, that if it's meant to be it's up to you. You are enough, you have it. You're ready, you can do this.
Be sure to sit down and set your goals, make them fun, juicy, joyous. You owe it to yourself.
Make it challenging and be bold!
Be creative.
Be playful.
Make a project out of things.
Set monthly action plans and follow up on them.
Get a coach to help you out!
Make them happen and get a mentor to bounce ideas off of.
Set something important to you to play for or shoot for this year, let that be your purpose.
Know what your values are so you can be guided by your values. For me freedom, creativity and fun are key values. If these don't exist in my professional or personal life, then I know I am not going to succeed in that kind of environment.
Lastly be sure to visualize your success or the outcomes you want. Meditate for 10 minutes each day and first thank the universe for the day and then focus on what you want to have happen.
So there you go, turn the mundane into something magnificent. Take the bland and turn it into big time! Take the routine and route it! Be big, be in joy, be in health, be in the moment and be you...cause you rock!
Happy 2011!
Cheers/David Cohen
p.s. enjoy the uplifting video, play it loud!


